Building on the last encounter where the straight lawyer did sort of a dominance battle with me where neither one of us was exactly in control, I contacted the bottom I’d hooked up with a couple times so far – he was my first load at IML, and then later I fucked him with 3 [...]

Read an interesting article on HIV transmission in a “post-AIDS” world – focusing on Britain. The writer (Elizabeth Pisani) goes through the scenarios pretty fully and then has a few observations…
First she says gays needs to “shift down a gear or two” on drugs-and-sex. At least that’s her hope. While I agree some gay guys [...]

As on my way out to IML, I stopped in Cleveland and stayed at Flex on my return trip. After the uneventful time last time I had pretty low expectations. On top of that it was clear by then that I was coming down with a cold. It started a couple days before and as [...]

IML is over. There’s still one more post I need to put together – my one real S/M experience (other than the one where I mostly just watched), but it contains video, so I need to edit the video first.
Expectations vs. Reality
For starters the hotel wasn’t exactly a bathhouse. VERY sexual, but different than a [...]

Last night was my last night in Chicago. I did and S/M scene with a bottom in the early evening (got a video of it, so that post will come a little later), and then headed out to the Black & Blue Ball, which is basically a wrap up dance party for IML.
I got there [...]

Coming back from breakfast this guy comes onto me in the elevator. He’s flagging whipping top. He asks if I want to hang out and i say sure… He’s a hot, lean, older guy who looks “complicated”…
Walking down the hall he asks me what I like and I say I’m a top. He’s a top [...]