I’ve got a bit of an odd situation… This hot 22 y.o. jock wants to be my ‘boy’ – as in a live-in, dedicated relationship where he’s my primary fuck hole. He’s not in New York, I’ve never hooked up with him, but he’s coming to New York later this month for a few months and will probably stay here permanently…

Here’s the good parts…

• He’s HOT:
  • 22 y.o.
  • Great body (see pic)
  • VERY attractive
• He’s very submissive and wants to be owned
• He likes daddies and bears
• He’s be interested in puppy play
• He’ll drink piss
• He understands/accepts that I’ll fuck other bottoms, not just him, and that there’s a risk of STDs, etc.
• He understands/accepts that my bf comes first and is willing to do a 3way arrangement where he’s be a boy for both of us
• He’s bright, professional, and has a lot going for him other than his looks and submissiveness

But there are things that make me wonder…

• He’s only ever been fucked by 4 guys, and has never had cum in his ass – I’ll be the first person to breed him
• He’s only ever had sex (of any sort) with 20-30 guys (he seems to mostly like oral)
• He’s never met me and has a hard time explaining why he’s into me other than I’m his type and he’s been reading my blog for years
• I can tell he really would prefer a 1-on-1 monogamous relationship with a dom top / master – not a 3way open relationship

Bottom line, I think he’s built me up in his mind and when he really gets to know me he’ll realize I don’t match is fantasy and that will be the end of things. While a good dom top isn’t easy to find, if anyone can get exactly what he wants it’s someone like him – young, hot and focused. I honestly think he’ll realize New York is so big that there are tops who exactly match what he’s looking for and he’ll “trade up”.

Still, there’s a decent chance he’s for real and I’m not going to pass up the chance that something like this can work out. I would be totally hot to take him in full puppy gear to some place like MAL or IML or even just out to the Eagle for drinks. It would also be nice to have a hot ass to fuck and seed whenever I want. And while we don’t really have space in our apartment for a 3rd person right now, that’ll change next year when we move into our new place.

I’ve talked it over with my bf, since having a boy would be a major change in our relationship – He’s also skeptical, but like me sorta hopeful and willing to try it out.

So what do people think? Anyone have experience with a similar relationship?

UPDATE: The boy flaked on me. It’s been about a week and a half since I heard from him. He just sorta disappeared. Maybe he got cold feet. Maybe it was all a fantasy. Guess I’ll never know. Oh well. Woulda been nice, but it’s clearly not going to happen.

I’ve been wanting to get up to 0 gauge on my PA for a while now. Years ago I thought I wanted to go to 00 and didn’t realize how much bigger it was than the 2 ga ring I had in (which was actually more like 3 ga) so I had bought the 00 only to realize it completely fills my urethra, so then I reduced my goal to 0 ga. Back then I never could get the 0 ga in, and I stopped wearing the PA for a while there, but this morning I got it back in… It’s considerably heavier than my 2 ga ring. I really like how heavy it is swinging at the end of my dick.

So here it is…

If you want to see more pics of my PA, check out the photo album of my Prince Albert on Breeding Zone. You’ll need to be logged in to see the album. Originally I embedded a pic from that gallery in this post, but then I realized you couldn’t see it (oops).

I used to think Aiden Shaw was SO hot! You sorta wonder what happened to the old porn stars. So many of the ones I jacked off to when I was young are probably dead…

Well, Aiden is very much alive and kicking and he’s still sexy as hell. Here’s a video of him talking about his big dick. He’s aged incredibly gracefully and his accent is just wonderful to listen to.

Just saw this video over at Cum Craver’s blog… Very hot! The band is Gay Fight Club, and the top is Peto Coast who’s done some videos for Macho Fucker.

I really wish stuff like this was more typical – that you could go out to a concert or a bar and just suck and fuck openly… Seems pretty normal and natural to me…

UPDATE…

NEVER MIND – Grindr is useless… My “discreet” profile ad was deleted. All I said was I was “uninhibited top” looking for a no-strings fuck. Looking at their guidelines 1) “Explicit sexual words and slang are expressly prohibited”, and 2) “Mention of unsafe sex is expressly prohibited”. I can sorta understand #1 given that they have to pass Apple’s “family friendly” policies for the app store. But #2 is just gratuitous nonsense since #1 more than covers #2…

So bottom line – forget about Grindr… Given Apple’s policies I’m not sure there ever will be a decent iPhone app for anonymous sex. There needs to be one, but Apple has a draconian control over what goes on the iPhone…

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Came across an iPhone app today that’s worth mentioning – Grindr. Bascially it lets you see who’s near you. While it’s meant to be more of a “social networking” sorta thing, there’s no reason it can’t be used for anonymous hookups. It’s easy enough to post that you’re looking to seed hole or looking for loads.

I’ve been wanting something like this to come along so when I’m downtown I can see what holes are nearby who will take my load. You literally could hookup with someone 5 minutes after practically zero discussion. “Wanna load?”, “Sure – here’s my address…” Of course most of the guys on there aren’t hardcore barebackers, but that’s what the favs button is for

I’ve only been playing with it for like 20 minutes. Anyone have more experience with it? Are there any downsides to using it? It doesn’t appear to give away your cell number or anything…

Anyway, when I’m downtown and up for hooking up I’ll be using it. When I’m home (uptown) I’ll be keeping the profile more discreet…

Oh – one other thing – don’t get banned from using it… Keep the photos clean – no nudity (frontal or rear) is allowed… Face and chest shots are OK…

If you’re not from NYC you may not have heard of him, but Rev. Al Sharpton is a bit of a fixture around here – he’s even run for mayor (and I voted for him). The man says things that are so true and says them with a frankness that’s wonderfully refreshing. Here’s the latest from him…

It amazes me when I looked at California and saw churches that had nothing to say about police brutality, nothing to say when a young black boy was shot while he was wearing police handcuffs, nothing to say when the they overturned affirmative action, nothing to say when people were being delegated into poverty, yet they were organizing and mobilizing to stop consenting adults from choosing their life partners. There is something immoral and sick about using all of that power to not end brutality and poverty, but to break into people’s bedrooms and claim that God sent you.

Can we clone him? Maybe make a few white versions of him and put them in places like Kansas so his message reaches a broader audience?

Needless to say guys like him are another reason why I love New York. Find me another place where a prominent black minister is saying things like that… And then there’s our blind, black governor who is trying his hardest to get us gay marriage, and the new (black) state senate majority leader who decided he’d rather lose his position than compromise his principles on things like his support for gay marriage (3 anti-gay Democratic senators were threatening to caucus with the Republicans if they didn’t get a vote on gay marriage taken off the table – in the end they lost and he won but the point is he wouldn’t use our civil rights as a bargaining chip for him to get a great deal or power)…

I really can’t imagine living anywhere but NYC…